When I was young I was one of those kids that got pulled onstage at a Green Day concert. That was pretty awesome.
We like to juxtapose our music with a more dour aesthetic.
There's no coherent stylistic genre specific advice that I could provide.
One of my favorite quotes ever was from Slash from Guns and Roses and he said 'to be truly iconic, you need to be able to recognized in a silhouette'
Never take a person away from the music they love.
I think the less individuality you portray... not individuality but like the more solidarity you have the better.