It turns out that our notions of what a 'self' is and how it might feel fulfilled have no more objective status than most of the rest of reality. It seems we make ourselves up as we go along.

In the beginning it was all black and white.

Comedy is quite difficult, you have to be able to have fun and portray that sense of fun to the audience watching you.

Audiences in London called me the girl with the black cherry eyes.

The depth of John Candy's talent did surprise me. He was one of my all-time favorite leading men.

I saw myself as Joan of Arc.

Empathy provides more than just information about relationships. It is an expression of being in relationship. It is not just a means to better healing relationship, but because it recenters relationship as a central organizing feature of psychic life, empathy itself is healing. The experience of being known and accepted deeply by another, being aware of another being aware of you, what Jordan calls "mutual empathy".