I do believe that leaders have to be held to a higher standard, especially Christian leaders. I put myself in that camp.
Conflict is inevitable but combat is optional.
God does not exist to make a big deal out of us. We exist to make a big deal out of him. It's not about you. It's not about me. It's all about him.
I struggle with trying to be a good pastor of a large church.
You'll regret opening your mouth. You'll rarely regret keeping it shut.
Become a worry-slapper. Treat frets like mosquitoes. Do you procrastinate when a bloodsucking bug lights on your skin? 'I'll take care of it in a moment.' Of course you don't! You give the critter the slap it deserves. Be equally decisive with anxiety.