My sister died and my mum was really distant, as you do - you don't expect your offspring to die before you. I thought I was bulletproof up until that stage.

Norm Smith personally came and signed me up to the Melbourne Football Club. The fact that I then played cricket for Melbourne Cricket Club - the footy club didn't like it that much.

Fame and fortune should never get in front of your passion. The passion will generate the fame and fortune, if you're good enough.

Given how well the cards have been dealt to someone like myself, I think there's an inherent obligation to try to reach out and make a difference.

I try and open a few doors to the mind, encourage people to embrace change and to stretch their capabilities.

I was good at football and cricket at school. My dad said, 'Son, be an architect,' and I came to Melbourne passionate about becoming an architect.

My father Big Max told me many years ago that 'anything you are good at will contribute to your happiness'. Great advice.