When you believe you can... you can!
Ignore past failures and forge ahead.
Your automatic guidance system cannot guide you when you're stalled, โstanding stillโ.
When we consciously and deliberately develop new and better habits, our self image tends to outgrow the old habits and grow into the new pattern.
Change your mental imagery, and the feelings will take care of themselves.
Begin to imagine what the desirable outcome would be like. Go over these mental pictures and delineate details and refinements. Play them over and over to yourself.