The only way through painโฆis to absorb, probe, understand exactly what it is and what it means. To close the door on pain is to miss the chance for growth.
May SartonWhat frightens me about America today is that in the large majority there is no active sense of the value of the individual: few citizens feel that they are the Republic, responsible for what happens. And when the individual in a democracy ceases to feel his importance, then there is grave danger that he will give over his freedom, if not to a Fascist State, then to the advertising men or Publicity Agents or to the newspaper he happens to read.
May Sarton