When we speak of being vulnerable, it suggests being especially vulnerable to pain. People for whom personal dignity and self-sufficiency are everything, do all they can to shut it out. Noli mi tangere. They are well aware that any intimate relationship has pain in it, forces a special kind of awareness, is costly, and so they try to keep themselves unencumbered by shutting pain out as far as it is possible to do so.
May SartonWe cannot afford not to fight for growth and understanding, even when it is painful, as it is bound to be.
May SartonIn poetry compromise is fatal. In action of any cooperative sort it is inevitable. The thing is to find the balance.
May Sarton