What we really have to do is take a day and sit down and think. The world is not going to end or fall apart. Jobs won't be lost. Kids will not run crazy in one day. Lovers won't stop speaking to you. Husbands and wives are not going to disappear. Just take that one day and think. Don't read. Don't write. No television, no radio, no distractions. Sit down and think. . . . Go sit in a church, or in the park, or take a long walk and think. Call it a healing day.

I'm sorry to say that when some people get to age 50, they say, "Well, that's the end, I'll never have to do sex again." They lay down first and get up last! But in your sixties, everything is sweeter. You have more time.

When I want to think about what would be the right thing to do, the fair thing to do, the wise thing to do, I can just think of my grandmother. I can always hear her say, "Now sister, you know what's right. Just do right!"

We need language to tell us who we are, how we feel, what we're capable of- to explain the pains and glory of our existence.

People are too busy putting things under microscopes and so forth. Creativity is greater than the sum of its parts.

Only equals make friends, every other relationship is contrived and off balance.

My greatest blessing has been the birth of my son. My next greatest blessing has been my ability to turn people into children of mine.