I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as 'making a life'.
I think music is one of the hero/sheroes of the African-American existence.
Never whine. Whining lets a brute know that a victim is in the neighborhood.
Every day I awaken I am grateful. My intent is to be totally present in that day. And laugh as much as possible.
We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated.
You have to deal with what you encounter. But you must not be reduced. And so a way not to be reduced is don't whine! Don't let the incidents which take place in life bring you low.