Black women have not historically stood in the pulpit, but that doesn't undermine the fact that they built the churches and maintain the pulpits.
Troubles are a blessing that force you to change, to believe.
If you have, give. If you learn, teach.
Whining lets the brute know there's a victim for him in the neighborhood!
My mother raised me, and then freed me.
Few, if any, survive their teens. Most surrender to the vague but murderous pressure of adult conformity.