I don't look like most women in the industry.
Don't listen to anyone's advice. Listen to your baby ... There are so many books, doctors, and well-meaning friends and family. We like to say, 'You don't need a book. Your baby is a book. Just pick it up and read it.'
Attachment parenting is not a passive parenting style.
I like bold colors but usually wear black.
A lot of stuff I wear I've had since high school.
I do believe babies are born potty-trained. They're born knowing and are able to give subtle signals that become very prominent if you reinforce them.