If you love men and they are unfriendly, look into your love; if you rule men and they are unruly, look into your wisdom; if you are courteous to them and they do not respond, look into your courtesy. If what you do is vain, always seek within.
MenciusHe who loves others is always loved by them, and he who respects others is always respected by them.
MenciusVirtue alone is not sufficient for the exercise of government; laws alone cannot carry themselves into practice.
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