Friendship with a man is friendship with his virtue, and does not admit of assumptions of superiority.
MenciusIf you love men and they are unfriendly, look into your love; if you rule men and they are unruly, look into your wisdom; if you are courteous to them and they do not respond, look into your courtesy. If what you do is vain, always seek within.
MenciusVirtue alone is not sufficient for the exercise of government; laws alone cannot carry themselves into practice.
MenciusThere is the work of great men and there is the work of little men. Therefore it is said, 'Some labor with their minds and some labor with their strength. Those who labor with their minds govern others; those who labor with their strength are governed by others.'1 Those who are governed by others support them; those who govern them are supported by them. This is a universal principle.
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