There are no perfect men of course, but some are more perfect than others, and we can use all of those we can get.

Our times are obsessed with finding fulfillment, so there are times when some people try too hard, and there are people who want to have the newest feelings just as there are those who want to have the latest model car. You can't play at love any more than you can be proud of your humility, or add water to your perfume and have it smell the same, but men and women both have been known to try.

There are problems connected with infidelity and problems connected with being faithful at any cost, and I am for letting those concerned choose the problems they'd prefer. There need not be one rule for all. Infidelity is enlarging and fragmenting and very very dangerous, but it has been known to retrieve people as well as marriages, so it can't be only bad.

The best kind of men have a certainty in themselves that isn't done in when countered by a certainty in their women, and they are much adored.

Sex deepens love and love deepens sex, so physical intimacy transforms everything and playing with it is playing with fire.

when you put something good into the world, something good comes back to you.

No marriage is one person's failure any more than it's one person's success, so it works best to see a marriage that has ended simply as something that didn't work out.