A kind soul knows impoliteness is just preoccupied with distraction.
In order to find yourself you need to get lost in the forest of life.
The peace you seek is there, it's there between all the traffic in your mind, stop and rest for peace will find you if you let it.
Be the light in the dark, be the calm in the storm and be at peace while at war.
Use your energy for good and it will be replenished with more good energy, use you energy for bad and your energy will be drained.
The memories you have are just recordings of things past, not chains to bind you.