In true friendship, in which I am expert, I give myself to my friend more than I draw him to me. I not only like doing him good better than having him do me good, but also would rather have him do good to himself than to me; he does me most good when he does himself good.
Michel de MontaigneEvery one's true worship was that which he found in use in the place where he chanced to be.
Michel de Montaigne