We are all of us richer than we think we are; but we are taught to borrow and to beg, and brought up more to make use of what is another's than of our own.
Michel de MontaigneIf ordinary people complain that I speak too much of myself, I complain that they do not even think of themselves.
Michel de MontaigneWe do not marry for ourselves, whatever we say; we marry just as much or more for our posterity, for our family. The practice and benefit of marriage concerns our race very far beyond us.
Michel de Montaigne