The wise man should withdraw his soul within, out of the crowd, and keep it in freedom and power to judge things freely; but as for externals, he should wholly follow the accepted fashions and forms.
Michel de MontaigneWe should be similarly wary of accepting common opinions; we should judge them by the ways of reason not by popular vote.
Michel de MontaigneIf there is such a thing as a good marriage, it is because it resembles friendship rather than love.
Michel de Montaigne