Marriage has, for its share, usefulness, justice, honour, and constancy; a stale but more durable pleasure. Love is grounded on pleasure alone, and it is indeed more gratifying to the senses, keener and more acute; a pleasure stirred and kept alive by difficulties. There must be a sting and a smart in it. It ceases to be love if it has no shafts and no fire.
Michel de MontaigneHow many worthy men have we known to survive their own reputation, who have seen and suffered the honor and glory most justly acquired in their youth, extinguished in their own presence?
Michel de MontaigneIt is commonly seene by experience, that excellent memories do rather accompany weake judgements.
Michel de MontaigneA good marriage (if any there be) refuses the conditions of love and endeavors to present those of amity.
Michel de Montaigne