Fortune does us neither good nor hurt; she only presents us the matter, and the seed, which our soul, more powerfully than she, turns and applies as she best pleases; being the sole cause and sovereign mistress of her own happy or unhappy condition.
Michel de MontaigneI care not so much what I am to others as what I am to myself. I will be rich by myself, and not by borrowing.
Michel de Montaigne