In true friendship, in which I am expert, I give myself to my friend more than I draw him to me. I not only like doing him good better than having him do me good, but also would rather have him do good to himself than to me; he does me most good when he does himself good.
Michel de MontaigneThe judgment is an utensil proper for all subjects, and will have an oar in everything.
Michel de Montaigne