If in my youth I had realized that the sustaining splendour of beauty of with which I was in love would one day flood back into my heart, there to ignite a flame that would torture me without end, how gladly would I have put out the light in my eyes.
MichelangeloSo take care of your life and take notice and be observant, for the number of widows is always far greater than the number of widowers.
Michelangelo