I feel like something has changed for me, but it’s a new change, so it’s going to be hard for me to describe. Maybe it has something to do with turning 30. I don’t feel as shy or nervous or self-conscious. I have more confidence that I can handle what life brings me. I don’t feel scared to have an idea and express it. I feel giddy about it because it’s a complete transformation. It’s like I’ve found my voice.

The idea that you can get everything you want in one person is destructive, and maybe when you accept that the number is closer to 50 or 60 or 70 percent, that's when you can start to make some progress in choosing the right person.

I'm not going to rush anything and scamper around like a mad person and make myself crazy.

I learn a lot; what I learn cannot be expressed in words.

I'm not a happy person when I'm working.

I don't know what my version of a relationship or marriage is yet, because the typical model seems a little broken to me.

There was a weird, innate kind of understanding between me and Christina (Ricci). A psychic told us we were sisters in a past life.