Leaders have to search for the heart on a team, because the person who has it can bring out the best in everybody else.

You don't just be a team. You become a team. Through tough games you find that you need each other

Encourage members of your team to take the initiative and act on their own.

My parents didn't really understand too much about sport. At that time, we were in a Polish community in the inner city of Chicago, and I was the youngest of a bunch of cousins. Polish families are real big, with cousins and aunts and uncles.

I think coaching is confused at times as being an arrow that only goes to a player. Those players send arrows back to you, and that’s where a relationship is developed. I don’t make a player, and a player doesn’t make me a coach. We make each other.

We lost, and that's the main thing that went wrong.

I'm still not a great reader, but my wife is and my daughters are, and I envy them. I think I got into a bad habit of trying to do something all the time, instead of trying to sit down and take my time a little bit.