In eroticism as dance: one of the partners is always charged with leading the other.

The important thing is to abide by the rule of threes. Either you see a woman three times in quick succession and then never again, or you maintain relations over the years but make sure that the rendezvous are at least three weeks apart.

...no one can do a thing about feelings, they exist and there's no way to censor them. We can reproach ourselves for some action, for a remark, but not for a feeling, quite simply because we have no control at all over it.

Remembering now all those farewells (fake farewells, worked-up farewells), Irena thinks: a person who messes up her goodbyes shouldn’t expect much from her re-unions.

Laughing deeply is living deeply.

Is a novel anything but a trap set for a hero?

In the mind of a woman for whom no place is home the thought of an end to all flight is unbearable.