The basis of the self is not thought but suffering, which is the most fundamental of all feelings. While it suffers, not even a cat can doubt its unique and uninterchangeable self. In intense suffering the world disappears and each of us is alone with his self. Suffering is the university of ego-centrism.
Milan KunderaNothing is more repugnant to me than brotherly feelings grounded in the common baseness people see in one another.
Milan KunderaLooking out over the courtyard at the dirty walls, he realized he had no idea whether it was hysteria or love.
Milan Kundera