I often begin movies with music in my head; it's a very important dimension to me. Not just the music itself, but how to use music in film: when and how and subtlety. I don't like to be too sweet in my stories, and I like the abrasive clang, the contrasting of sounds and cultures.

Americans are not used to being bombed in their beds, but if you come from anywhere outside America, it's not highly unusual.

Humility is not a trait I often associate with America.

You've got to understand that in Bollywood, every actor is an instrument, and yet a human being. They come to the set with a set agenda, believing, 'This is who I am, this is what I want, and no, I am not going to become that character you want me to.'

Never take no for answer, and try to make films that turn you on.

My family is almost exactly like the one in 'Monsoon Wedding'. We are very open, fairly liberal, loud people.

It took me three years to learn to dress in the American way, especially in winter. That was just like me. I barely wear socks even now.