People who would not be using the word gender or thinking about gayness or trans-ness may actually, without even thinking about it, be not their own gender in their inner world. I think that's actually so normal, because female sexuality is sold to all of us. It doesn't just reach the eyes of men. You might not care about the idea of boobs or jugs or whatever, but it could impact your inner sexual life.

I could not make a move without making love.

You always feel like you are the only one in the world, like everyone else is crazy for each other, but it's not true. Generally, people don't like each other very much. And that goes for friends, too.

I had a joint once and I didn't feel right for a whole year

Live the dream, Potato.

Making a movie: It's so hard. It's the hardest of all the things I do.

It would require constant vigilance to not replace each person with my own fictional version of them.