Forgiveness flounders because I exclude the enemy from the community of humans and myself from the community of sinners.
Miroslav VolfThe difference between justice and forgiveness: To be just is to condemn the fault and, because of the fault, to condemn the doer as well. To forgive is to condemn the fault but to spare the doer. That's what the forgiving God does.
Miroslav VolfWhatever the reasons, when forgiveness happens it is always a miracle of grace. The obstacles in its way are immense
Miroslav Volf