If you hold back on the emotions--if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them--you can never get to being detached, you're too busy being afraid. You're afraid of the pain, you're afraid of the grief. You're afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails. But by throwing yourself into these emotions, by allowing yourself to dive in, all the way, over your heard even, you experience them fully and completely.
Mitch AlbomAnd if you donยดt commit? I asked. Your choice. But you miss whatยดs on the other side. Whatยดs on the other side? "Ah" he smiled. "A happiness you cannot find alone
Mitch AlbomAre you seeing anyone romantically?" he inquired. "No, I'm not," she replied. "Good. Please keep it that way. Because I intend to ask you to marry me.
Mitch Albom