There is no experience like having children.โ Thatโs all. There is no substitute for it. You cannot do it with a friend. You cannot do it with a lover. If you want the experience of having complete responsibility for another human being, and to learn how to love and bond in the deepest way, then you should have children.
Mitch AlbomTaffy. He thinks about taffy. He thinks it would take his teeth out now, but he would eat it anyhow, if it meant eating it with her.
Mitch AlbomNo matter where you live, the biggest defect we human beings have is our shortsightedness. We don't see what we could be.
Mitch AlbomTake one story, viewed from two different angles. It is the same day, the same moment, but one angle ends happily... and the other ends badly.
Mitch AlbomParents rarely let go of their children, so children let go of them. They move on. They move away. The moments that used to define them - a mother's approval, a father's nod - are covered by moments of their own accomplishments. It is not until much later, as the skin sags and the heart weakens, that children understand; their stories, and all their accomplishments, sit atop the stories of their mothers and fathers, stones upon stones, beneath the waters of their lives.
Mitch Albom