That kind of love - the kind you realize you already have by the life you've created together - that's the kind that lasts.

She had a bottomless well of love for me.

my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways" from the book of Isaiah

But our eyes are different, what you see ain't what I see.

We’re so wrapped up with egotistical things, career, family, having enough money, meeting the mortgage, getting a new car, fixing the radiator when it breaks—we’re involved in trillions of little acts just to keep going. So we don’t get into the habit of standing back and looking at our lives and saying, Is this all? Is this all I want? Is something missing?

If you hold back on the emotions--if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them--you can never get to being detached, you're too busy being afraid. You're afraid of the pain, you're afraid of the grief. You're afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails. But by throwing yourself into these emotions, by allowing yourself to dive in, all the way, over your heard even, you experience them fully and completely.

You can find something truly important in an ordinary minute.