The way is in training.
As if with the nut and flower, the nut has become less than the flower... both those teaching and those learning are concerned with colouring and showing off their technique, trying to hasten the bloom of the flower.
If you wish to control others you must first control yourself
Do nothing which is of no use.
Generally speaking, the Way of the warrior is resolute acceptance of death.
Immature strategy is the cause of grief.