I've dated some very enthusiastic, attractive people and some very unenthusiastic, less attractive people. I see no correlation. But female friends of mine who have dated male public figures have found that is the case. They say male models are terrible in bed, because they feel like just showing up is all the effort they need to make.
MobyI love Thich Nhat Hahn. One of my favorite quotes of his (and Iโm paraphrasing), heโs talking about cultivating happiness, and he was saying, at the very least, just be happy youโre not at the dentist right now. He was talking to someone who was having a really hard time finding joy.
Moby