When I was turning 40, I felt that there were no books out there that hit the spot in terms of what I wanted to read.

Yes, my kids come first, but as a parent I need to come to them with a fresh mind. I can't be too exhausted or too tired. And I am a better parent when I have more energy.

When I was turning 40, I felt that there were no books out there that hit the spot in terms of what I wanted to read.

I've done kissing scenes with people who have been loaded. I'd think, 'Do you actually have to drink that Jack Daniels to kiss me?'

Whatever it is that gives you that confidence will vary from person to person, but I do believe that it is the key to succeeding at anything in life - career, relationships, anything.

Getting the pretty back is about getting back in touch with your essential self: the part of you that knows what you really want.

And to be honest, most actors are incredibly solipsistic.