Online we have a compassion deficit

Be mindful of clickbait - sensational stories designed to humiliate. Click with compassion.

But, clearly to me, what I've come to see is that that happened because I didn't have enough feelings of self-worth. So that I didn't feel that ... I was worthy of being number one to a man.

Try and have neutral compassion toward the perpetrator. Step outside the sting of the incident and realize that this person is trying to erase their own inadequacy or unhappiness by transferring it to you. It won't make the incident go away, but it's one thing you can do to reduce the pain.

At one point, I actually, ironically, thought I might go into criminology and work with the FBI.

Do you want me to answer that?

To mock at a soul in pain is a dreadful thing.