I lost my public self, or had it stolen. In a way, it was a form of identity theft.

I'm an incredibly lucky girl. For someone who has made some very foolish mistakes and had some tough lessons to learn very quickly, I am still incredibly lucky.

Try and have neutral compassion toward the perpetrator. Step outside the sting of the incident and realize that this person is trying to erase their own inadequacy or unhappiness by transferring it to you. It won't make the incident go away, but it's one thing you can do to reduce the pain.

I'm probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again.

I chose to not wear a wire and tape people. I chose to not get immunity until - were accepted, whatever - until the independent counsel's office was comfortable with what I said was the truth.

Let's acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intention and speaking up for attention.

I was worried about my mom more than I was worried about the president. And then I was worried about the president, and then I was worried about myself.