If one wants another only for some self-satisfaction, usually in the form of sensual pleasure, that wrong desire takes the form of lust rather than love.
Mortimer AdlerWhen we ask for love, we don't ask others to be fair to us-but rather to care for us, to be considerate of us. There is a world of difference here between demanding justice... and begging or pleading for love.
Mortimer AdlerA lecture has been well described as the process whereby the notes of the teacher become the notes of the student without passing through the mind of either.
Mortimer Adler