It is indeed in many ways more comfortable to belong to that section of society whose action are not publicly canvassed and discussed
Murasaki ShikibuThere is a tendency among men as well as women ... so soon as they have acquired a little knowledge of some kind, to want to display it to the best advantage.
Murasaki ShikibuPeople who do not get into scrapes are a great deal less interesting than those who do.
Murasaki ShikibuSome ... have imagined that by arousing a baseless suspicion in the mind of the beloved we can revive a waning devotion. But this experiment is very dangerous. Those who recommend it are confident that so long as resentment is groundless one need only suffer it in silence and all will soon be well. I have observed however that this is by no means the case.
Murasaki Shikibu