It is indeed in many ways more comfortable to belong to that section of society whose action are not publicly canvassed and discussed
Murasaki ShikibuWho has told you that the fruit belies the flower? For the fruit you have not tasted, and the flower you know but by report.
Murasaki ShikibuIn a certain reign there was a lady not of the first rank whom the emperor loved more than any of the others. The grand ladies with high ambitions thought her a presumptuous upstart, and lesser ladies were still more resentful. Everything she did offended someone.
Murasaki Shikibu