If you choose the sort of life which has no conventional pattern you have to try to make an art of it, or it is a mess.
Muriel Spark[My novel] took up the sweetest part of my mind and the rarest part of my imagination; it was like being in love and better. All day long when I was busy [...], I had my unfinished novel personified almost as a secret companion and accomplice following me like a shadow wherever I went, whatever I did.
Muriel Spark