Silence always gives consent.
... no matter how one's heart aches, one can do the necessary things and do them well.
It seems to take a lifetime for us to learn that wisdom consists largely in a graceful acceptance of things that do not immediately concern us.
When the years bring wisdom, one learns to leave many problems to their own working out.
Did you ever read a love-letter that wasn't an evidence of idiocy - except your own?
When we get civilised, I believe children will go by number until they get old enough to choose their own names.