There is only one path which leads to the house of forgiveness - that of understanding.
I've just washed my hair and I can't do a thing with it!
When things hurt us, we're merely on our way to another spiritual environment.
If we all tried to make other people's paths easy, our own feet would have a smooth even place to walk on.
Those who have been made great have first suffered.
... no matter how one's heart aches, one can do the necessary things and do them well.