Blaming mother is just a negative way of clinging to her still.
Our culture raises us to seek success but we are not taught how to live with it.
Fantasy isn't something you run out of.
If women really want equality, we have to wipe the slate clean. It no longer matters in the largest sense what men did to us for the last 200 or 300 years.
Because society would rather we always wore a pretty face, women have been trained to cut off anger.
The debt of gratitude we owe our mother and father goes forward, not backward. What we owe our parents is the bill presented to us by our children.