I never examined my role in male culture, in hyper masculinity. I never examined it, nobody ever called me on it.

I got work to do. I got a lot of work to do within myself.

In all actuality, we got to do better about preparing our men for their interactions with women.

Sadly, black people disassociate ourselves from the things which make us who we are, identifying them as lesser, or inferior. It's a form of self hate.

When you're in a relationship with someone you have to be in control of that relationship and you have to be as open as you can about everything, straight up, out the gate.

Some people think racism is if you say the n-word, so homophobia is if you call someone...

I never examined my role in male culture, in hyper masculinity. I never examined it, nobody ever called me on it.