My mother always tells me, "Fear isn't from God," and I believe that. But sometimes, I wonder whether I'll be able step into the shoes that God has prepared for me.

I can't remember ever having a conversation about the definition of consent when I was a kid. I knew that no meant no, but that's it.

Race I've been studying since I knew there was a problem with race and that I was Black and something was wrong. Gender, is very new to me. All I can say is this is something that I'm going to take hold of and pray about it.

When you're 19, a threesome is normal. It's fun.

Sadly, black people disassociate ourselves from the things which make us who we are, identifying them as lesser, or inferior. It's a form of self hate.

If I can use my platform to affect change in gender, as I can in race, then I think I can have an impact.

For the women out there that I've hurt with my male privilege, I'm sorry.