If I can use my platform to affect change in gender, as I can in race, then I think I can have an impact.

I recognize as a man there's a lot of things that I don't have to think about. But I'm thinking about them now.

I have engaged in hyper-male culture, and I'm learning about it, and I'm learning how I can change and help young boys and young men change.

I'm not perfect, I'm a flawed man, but I'm willing to try to get better, I'm willing to listen.

I never examined my role in male culture, in hyper masculinity. I never examined it, nobody ever called me on it.

You can be addicted to White Supremacy and all of the benefits, you can be addicted to male privilege and all of the benefits that comes from it. It's like someone pointing at you and you have a stain on your shirt and you don't even know it.

When you're 19, getting a girl to say yes, or being a dog, or being a player, cheating. Consent is all about - for me, back then - if you can get a girl to say yes, you win.