We're all born with selfish desires, so we can all relate to those feelings in others. But kindness is something made individually by each person. So it's easy to misunderstand when others are trying to be kind to you.

Anyone who knows how scary it is to be alone, can't help loving others." ~Rin Sohma

Shigure: "What's in the camera? Huh? Huh? What is it?" Hatori: "Quiet, you hack.

He's just explaining the situation to her, but he's all over her every chance he gets! Kureno! Touching Tohru!!!

OH KYO KUN! Isn't it said that eating pink noodles turns you into a horny pervert?!

Normally I hate people who whine all the time, but in your case, it would be okay to complain. Be selfish, say what you want once in a while. It's okay to let yourself be sad." -Kyo talking to Tohru

You don't have to be 'adults'... but be someone who can take responsibility for their own words and actions. Believe it or not, that's actually harder.