We have some role in almost everything that happens in our lives. When "bad" things happen, the mistake is not in the role, but in calling them bad. For in calling them bad, we call ourselves bad, since we had a role in their creation. We then have only two choices: blame ourselves, or disown our creative power, neither of which is congruent with our highest purpose.
Neale Donald WalschThere is no need to punish yourself. Simply notice what you've been choosing and choose again.
Neale Donald WalschA leader is not someone who says: Follow me.......A leader is someone who says: I'll go first.
Neale Donald Walsch