The first question in any interactive process with another is: now Who Am I, and Who Do I Want to Be, in relationship to that?
Neale Donald WalschNo feeling you get from any exterior stimulation or source is anything like the total bliss of communion within.
Neale Donald WalschThere are no victims in the universe, only creators. The Masters who have walked this planet all knew this.
Neale Donald WalschThe way to reduce the pain which you associate with earthly experiences and events-both yours and those of others-is to change the way you behold them.
Neale Donald WalschI do not care what you do, and that is hard for you to hear. Yet do you care what your children do when you send them out to play? Is it a matter of consequence to you whether they play tag, or hide and seek, or pretend? No, it is not, because you know they are perfectly safe. You have placed them in an environment which you consider friendly and very okay.
Neale Donald WalschFor most people, love is a response to need fulfillment. Everyone has needs. You need this, another needs that. You both see in each other a chance for need fulfillment. So you agree-tacitly-to a trade. I'll trade you what I've got if you'll give me what you've got. It's a transaction. But you don't tell the truth about it. You don't say, "I trade you very much." You say, "I love you very much," and then the disappointment begins.
Neale Donald Walsch